I had a girlfriend email me about how her business is progressing and that she finds that she sometimes lands herself in the midst of feeling anxious and obsessing about how to talk to potential clients about her business. And of course, like most weeks when I write these blogs it is because I could totally see myself in the same boat! For me I am often 'freaked out' about how many people will come to my events! or not come.. to be more on point!
There are many surface reasons why we find ourselves 'freaking out' about 'who to talk to and how to talk to them ' or about any other aspects of our lives. When we feel these feelings it is because we are outside our comfort zone for a start.
I want to propose this thought...."The underlying reason why we become anxious and stressed could be that we are attaching our worth to the results." I mean why is it that it matters how many women come to my event? Is that a reflection of me? NO! It could have nothing to do with me. Could it be a reflection of how I marketed the event? SURE! However, that has NOTHING to do with ME. Not to do with who I AM anyway. Once we can stand in our power.. in our self-worth and own that who we are is already enough, then we don't need to attach the outcomes to who we are as women (or men).
So, when you next approach someone about your business, stand in your self-worth - in your power - and while you own who you are, that who you are is already enough irrelevant of the results and detach yourself from the outcome. (Even if the result is a positive one!)
Practice this and share your results for us all to read.
I love you all.
Own your power and your purpose for your life. You deserve it. YOU ARE WORTH IT! :)
xx Melissa
There are many surface reasons why we find ourselves 'freaking out' about 'who to talk to and how to talk to them ' or about any other aspects of our lives. When we feel these feelings it is because we are outside our comfort zone for a start.
I want to propose this thought...."The underlying reason why we become anxious and stressed could be that we are attaching our worth to the results." I mean why is it that it matters how many women come to my event? Is that a reflection of me? NO! It could have nothing to do with me. Could it be a reflection of how I marketed the event? SURE! However, that has NOTHING to do with ME. Not to do with who I AM anyway. Once we can stand in our power.. in our self-worth and own that who we are is already enough, then we don't need to attach the outcomes to who we are as women (or men).
So, when you next approach someone about your business, stand in your self-worth - in your power - and while you own who you are, that who you are is already enough irrelevant of the results and detach yourself from the outcome. (Even if the result is a positive one!)
Practice this and share your results for us all to read.
I love you all.
Own your power and your purpose for your life. You deserve it. YOU ARE WORTH IT! :)
xx Melissa
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